Years ago I wrote an article that was partly informational and partly rant. It has been published in variety of venues. I think it’s appeal is because it is somewhat counter cultural. I bravely and boldly broadcasted my frustration with society’s misperceptions about single mother households. Many individuals deem such families as somehow “broken” or destined for failure. Particularly during this political season we’re hearing many tout single parent households as though they are irreparably disadvantaged. In fact, one presidential candidate often refers to his single parent reared household as a steppingstone for his success. This is where I prefer to hang my proverbial hat.

For years single parent homes have produced our nation’s finest leaders, corporate giants and everyday success stories. There is no doubt that single parent families have their fair share of challenges. But what family structure doesn’t? Even the traditional two-parent families have their share to barriers in raising happy, healthy children.

I am not advocating for one parenting structure over another, but I am making one firm and bold statement: single parents (particularly single mothers) are capable of rearing healthy and successful children. If the single mom works hard, makes healthy decisions and is tenacious in spirit, the family is whole and not fragmented. In fact, I have seen a number of two parent families more broken than any single parent family I’ve encountered. Yes, in single mother homes, she has to perform what is usually a two person job. But it is possible.

Why should it be surprising that a single mother could rear a potential president of the United States? Why not? Or if a woman graduates with a degree and climbs the corporate ladder while raising children alone, I again say “Why not?” I believe that all things are possible if you only believe. Believe that you can overcome what seems to be an insurmountable financial struggle. Believe that you can turn down an unhealthy relationship and wait for someone who values you as you are and embraces who you are to become. Continue developing yourself, educating yourself and dealing with the unhealthy cycles of your past. In the end you can be successful. You can raise healthy, productive young people.

So the next time you feel like you are victim or somewhat less than your two parent counterparts, simply lift your head and say, “Why not?”

Teri Worten Brooks is the founder and Director of Sisters Helping Sisters, Inc. A Missouri-based nonprofit organization devoted to building the capacity of single mothers and all women to reach their fullest potential.

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